My boyfriends brothers long term girlfriend ( SIL) is a evil master manipulator and a control freak.
I don't know how to deal with these people because i am real and honest. I hate being fake and playing the game. My situation has been going on for over a year now and it is too long to describe, however today brought back old memories of when she used to live here. she came to visit today and finally i lost it. I have kept my cool for over a year and played the stupid game of being cool and a good person to impress the parents and not ruffle any feathers but i just snapped, i slammed the door in her face ( like she did to me before, only it was just the two of us) the only problem was that my father in law was talking with her when i did it. So when she left i vented on him ( big mistake) about her while ofcourse throwing out the f bombs in anger, then i went upstairs afterward s i curled in a ball and cried like a fool for a few hours and realized that i have fallen victim to her manipulation and shes winning because now i look like a loose cannon.
isnt it funny that all i want is to get along but i end up lookin like the one who wants to fight :(
how can i make this better, any ideas ( please only helpful ideas nothing negative, i really cant handle that right now)