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Sat, Jul. 9th, 2005, 09:41 pm
medea151: (no subject)

I just joined this community. I too, am living with my inlaws while we look for a house with our 14 month old daughter. I am going frigging insane. at this point i am trying to get us kicked out because my husband is happy where he is. any ideas are more than welcome

Sat, Jul. 2nd, 2005, 02:59 pm
karlicookie: another revenge on the MIL

ok ok here I am again but I swear I was so nice to this bitch for the last EIGHT months that I was FORCED by my husband to live there while buying a home. The whole time she was a bitch to me and made a relationship with my own daughter and husband impossible. In the last 4 days sine I blew up at her and moved out the relationship between me and Z has greatly improved.

*I ditched her on her 50th birthday and took my husband with me* I had to show her he was mine!!! It's not like I ever said I was going to be home that day or that me and him didn't have other plans. Something came up that would be much better than a stinky icky everyone is not talking any real talk because the tyrant of a FIL is there and the whiney little albino looking like a third world country has got the best of him BIL who won't leave my kid alone and just teaches her to not eat food. I went to the mountains and had a lovely escape from the desert heat and I spent that afternoon at the lake oh and the reason we didn't get back til very late actually not coming back for a couple days is that we tried to find out where the medical cannibus club was in the region for her "can't do anything wrong must be his evil wife" son can get his prescription filled.

I really hate her.
Never let your interfering MIL stay with you right after you give birth because she just may assume that the family you created was herself her son and HER grandchild. That's exactly what she did to me.

Sat, Jul. 2nd, 2005, 01:16 pm
karlicookie: Getting back at MIL

I am trying to find a in-law hating community for myself so I am sorry for those who may have read this already in anti parent or evil monster in law or something liek that

I finally blew up at my In-Laws laying it on thick as to why I really can't stand them. Then yesterday I went by there house to get the rest of my stuff when a brilliant revenge plan came to mind. I decided to take her "she who must be obeyed" cofee cup that I HATE and I filled it half with orange juice half with milk and then I hid it in her 9 y/o's room so that in a week or two it will smell soooooo very very foul!!!! hahah ok I know someone here HAS to think that's funny.

More to come later I need to get my own comp up and running

Sun, Jun. 26th, 2005, 05:11 pm
gryhnd2003: update

Hello everyone,

Yesterday dax talked to his dad about friday night. Well another thing i found out is that i pissed his mom off for something i said. When we were in lowes friday, dax said he was going to do the living room. i said no your not i get the upstairs and you get the down stairs and that is it(now dax and i already went over this, he knew i was joking.) Apparently his mom didnt. His dad is still not talking to me, which doesnt hurt my feelings any. I am getting tired of his parent BS. Dax told them both yesterday that they need to lighten up. I have never once yelled at my FIL or told him how i felt when he was being a butt head to me. I just sat there like a good little girl and let him talk. But now im at the point that i cant take it anymore and im about to lose my cool on my FIL. For instance when we eat at the table we get the same chair every time. So before we all gather to eat i might be cooking or watching tv in the kitchen and in his chair. and instead of giving me a chance to get up, or asking me nicely to get up, he says get out of my damn chair. And my husband just sits there and does nothing. So now i am fed up with it and i am not going to let him talk to me like that anymore. Sometimes i wonder if i did the right thing. Because yesterday was one of the very few times Dax has stood up for me. It pisses me off that he lets his dad talk to me anyway he wants too. And if i get an attitude back with him, he says im being a bitch, but he can have an attitude. if anyone could give me any advice i would greatly apreciate it. I have to go so i will talk to you all later.

THIS HAPPENED SATURDAY

Sun, Jun. 26th, 2005, 05:09 pm
gryhnd2003: Need to vent

Hello everyone,

How is everyone doing? I am doing great except for my in laws. Dax and I will finally be moving out. We dont have the house yet, we havent closed on it yet. But it is basically ours. I am very excited about moving out of this damn house. Now let me explain my problem with the in laws. My Father in law has been helped us a great deal with getting this house, and he is also helping with with ideas for the inside of the house. So dax and his dad went out today looking for stuff for the house to repair and refinish the house. First today was a shitty day because of work so i was already in a bad mood and i kinda took out on dax, but he forgave me. So anyway when i got off of work we all went to lowes to look at some stuff for the kitchen because we are going to redue the kitchen, (because whoever had it before did not take care of the house and the kitchen needs to be fixed.) so anywho, we started to look at light fixtures to go over the kitchen table and another to go over the island that i am going to put in there. I have picked out a pretty light blue color, not too light but not too dark, for the kitchen and the light fixtures i picked out are a cobalt blue. When i find something i like i stick with it whether it matches it or not. Well his dad was trying to tell me that the color wont match. and i was trying to tell him that i didnt care that i like the fixture. I told him that it was my kitchen and i like that fixture and that is what i want. So when we get home he is very quiet and dax was trying to get him to say what was wrong, so i went down stairs so he could find out. Well i hurt his feelings by saying that. He thought that i came across with an attitude and that i dont need his help anymore. and that is not what i meant. So i was going to be the good person and apologize for what ever i did and thank him. so dax called him downstairs and i said first of all i want to thank you for... and he interupted me and said it was too late. and went on about how they took me in and bought me things and tried to treat me as a daughter because they love me. And that the only reason he puts up with me is because of dax. he would not let me say how i feel and i was trying to tell him that i did not mean to come across like i did that i felt that he wasnt listening to me. and he said well that is how i took it and i am going to finish doing what i was doing. He never hurt my feelings at all he just pissed me off because he wouldnt let me talk. I may have had an attitude but i didnt mean to have one i was excited and when i get excited i get kinda loud but that is how i am. But he just wouldnt listen to me. So now he wont help because he took what i said the wrong way. But I cant wait to get out. I am now done venting for the night. Thank you for reading this whoever reads it. Goodnight everyone. I will talk to yall later.

THIS HAPPENED FRIDAY.






Stephie

Sat, May. 28th, 2005, 06:26 pm
_home__alone_: F-I-L… GRrrrrrrrrrrrRR

Hi everyone!
This community is just what I need right now. Thanks for creating it.

We got married about a month ago. And we don’t even live WITH in-laws (although not far enough from them…). Nonetheless I already feel like I’m absolutely drained. Honey-f****-moon…

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Thu, May. 26th, 2005, 08:04 pm
barefootbride06: (no subject)

First off I just want to say that I love this board, and will be on here alot, constant drama.

Second I dont think I want to marry into this family, my FI is the best but the rest of his family is crazy. Dads not that bad. But mom doesnt like me she liked his ex. And sis, well we work together, she got mad at me for the stupidest reason. I was going to hang out with her, but I was tired and my head hurt so I wanted to stay in bed all day. But then one of my friends came over crying, was I going to be like "go away I dont care", ummmm NO. So I hung out with her. At work that night fsil ignored me for 7 hours, it was crazy, slamming shit, oh god. Then the next day same thing for like 3 hours. We work midnights so it's not like there are other people to talk to. Then we fought about it, and made up. Sweet right? WRONG. While she was made about that she tried to start shit with the other girl that we work with. Is that really a reason to get that mad, is she like 2?

Tue, Apr. 12th, 2005, 05:33 pm
dietcokehed: Ok, updated email

Updated email based on advice here :)

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Mon, Apr. 11th, 2005, 03:38 pm
dietcokehed: "Grr" In-Laws doesn't even cut it...This.Means.WAR!!!

I have had it with the in-laws. Yesterday when my kids were in their care, they left Emily in her crib for FOUR HOURS!! They didn't check on her ONCE while I was gone! She was soaked through her clothes, and she already had a bad diaper rash with blisters, which they were well aware of! She had not had lunch and it was 3pm! No wonder Patrick has so many fucking problems...
I am emailing my MIL the second they leave, and the following is what I have to say:

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The End.

There may be more to add, depending on anything that happens tonight. Oh yeah, that's right, they're STILL HERE!! They didn't leave this morning like they had planned. They decided to extend their little intrusion until Wednesday. Patrick told me last night they will leave Tuesday. They better, because I'm kicking them out if they don't!

Mon, Apr. 11th, 2005, 03:37 pm
dietcokehed: "Grr" In-Laws doesn't even cut it...This.Means.WAR!!!

I have had it with the in-laws. Yesterday when my kids were in their care, they left Emily in her crib for FOUR HOURS!! They didn't check on her ONCE while I was gone! She was soaked through her clothes, and she already had a bad diaper rash with blisters, which they were well aware of! She had not had lunch and it was 3pm! No wonder Patrick has so many fucking problems...
I am emailing my MIL the second they leave, and the following is what I have to say:

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The End.

There may be more to add, depending on anything that happens tonight. Oh yeah, that's right, they're STILL HERE!! They didn't leave this morning like they had planned. They decided to extend their little intrusion until Wednesday. Patrick told me last night they will leave Tuesday. They better, because I'm kicking them out if they don't!

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